Posted by LadyBug on July 5, 2007, at 15:57:02
In reply to Sudden termination initiated by therapist, posted by Maria01 on July 4, 2007, at 19:00:50
I can't even imagine how devasted you feel. And not to be able to talk it through with her has to even be more painful. I would contact her supervisior and try to get more information. You have nothing to lose by it at this point.
I *almost* terminated a few years ago. I was so mad and hurt I never wanted to go back. But I told myself if I didn't at least go tell her goodbye that it would affect me the rest of my life. I did call her and through many tears and much hard work we worked through it. Not many people could have done that but I think we had a strong enough connection that we did it. It took a few years actually. It was kinda like the elephant in the room thing. We didn't address it totally for a long time, but when we did, we turned it around. It was so hard, but I'm glad I made the attempt to go back even though I was so hurt.
I know you don't have this option but I hope you can find a new T that will help you figure out what happened. The intern was cruel to you. I know how much this hurts. I'm glad you found your way to babble to help you sort through what you can. We are a group of very understanding people!
Keep us posted.
LadyBug
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