Posted by Happyflower on June 13, 2007, at 17:56:26
In reply to Re: Anxiety Plus Today....long vent ;o(, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on June 13, 2007, at 16:36:02
How did you T session go?
I feel all the pain you are going through, it has to be so hard especially when it is your kids hurting. But I see you doing so many thing right concerning your kids, and that is huge concidering how much you are going through yourself.
When my DH got divorse the 1st time, his 9yr old oldest daughter seemed fine and they thought she was okay because she wasn't acting out like her younger sister and brother. Well it was hidden, and it does come out sooner or later. Well her's did in her late 20's and I had to bear witness to that scene. Her realation with her mom and dad are still struggling because he didn't deal with the divorse when it happened. My DH see's now that mistake.So getting her in to see a T and getting meds to help her deal with it, is doing a darn good job as a parent. Most parents going through it are either so caught up with their own problems that the kids don't get the support or they pretend that it isn't a real big deal and their kids will cope. But you are taking the pro-active approach, which is awesome.
I think when I am going through the same thing, I will make sure my kids are in seeing a T. I think money is important, but having a mom like you is mor important to them, then the jeans they want to buy. Maybe they don't act like it, but afterall they are teenagers, but they will appreciate the time and concern you give them more than anything.
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