Posted by canadagirl on May 2, 2007, at 21:03:16
In reply to Re: How do you know?, posted by wishingstar on May 2, 2007, at 19:32:03
Sounds like she might be trying to distract you from the "deeper" issues for now. And talk about more "superficial" stuff, i.e, your relationship with this guy. That could be on purpose, so you take a break from the heavy stuff for awhile. Sometimes we need to change our thought patterns by distracting ourselves with something completely different. As I've found in Gestalt therapy. I found it very easy to change some of these patterns with that type of therapy. I believe our pathways in our brain get stuck in a particular groove that's hard to get out of sometimes. Not to take your serious thoughts lightly, of course. But people can and do overcome these difficult feelings. Believe me, it can be done. It really can. And there is hope.
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