Posted by muffled on April 23, 2007, at 22:05:50
In reply to Re: Question re:sex and honesty » muffled, posted by TherapyGirl on April 23, 2007, at 17:06:27
> I don't think you should do *anything* that makes you feel bad, Muffly. I do think perhaps you should try to work on these issues in therapy. Because I remember a post from you months ago where you talked about trying to connect with your husband and what a good husband he's been. So if nothing about that has changed, I think you should try really hard to find this piece of yourself.
**Sigh, like Gazo, much of my therapy has been crisis control and learning ways to cope when I not doing so well. I DID mention a bit bout this in a fax (of course!).
I don't know whether I can EVER get past this, but if I can at least tolerate w/o alot of problems, then I am OK with that.
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> I know it's hard, though, and I don't think you should force yourself to do it before you're ready.**I haven't been doing it. Its just so awful. My hubby even tries it just wrecks me. I don't show much externally, its mostly inside.
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> ((((((((Muffly))))))))**Thanks, this most definately sucks. :-(
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