Posted by Poet on February 15, 2007, at 17:20:18
In reply to Why won't I call by T back? (long), posted by mair on February 14, 2007, at 16:55:09
Hi Mair,
I don't think you're making yourself feel depressed and needy so you can continue therapy. I don't see how you're being at all manipulative. I think you're confused as to what you should do due to your T's health concerns. Maybe you're thinking T'll have more time to recover if I don't go to therapy, but on the other hand maybe being active as a therapist will help her feel stronger because she's able to work.
Maybe write down all the reasons you think you should terminate, and all the reasons you think you need to stay in therapy and see which comes out on top. I know you have much on your mind right now between your sister's and your T's cancers, but I'd hate to see you quit therapy if deep down you really need to continue it.
Good luck. I'm holding light for you, your T and your sister.
Poet
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