Posted by annierose on February 14, 2007, at 18:55:22
In reply to Why won't I call by T back? (long), posted by mair on February 14, 2007, at 16:55:09
I'm so sorry hearing about your sister. No wonder this is so confusing and difficult. The mixed emotions you are experiencing, I think, would be expected.
Since this is a 10 year relationship, I wouldn't want you to terminate right now. See her when it feels okay to do so, but keep her in your life. She is too important to you to just walk away from. I know that feeling --- everytime I want to quit or cancel a session, my need to see her spikes. This is a complicated relationship like no other.
I remember saying that it felt like you were going to therapy for her right now. And that can't feel good. So maybe you go as often or as little as you can. And when she gets healthier, you can make decisions then about termination. As hard as that might seem right now.
I'm just afraid of how you will feel if you lose the hope of her support in the future.
My thoughts and prayers are with your sister and your t. Life just sucks sometimes doesn't it?
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