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Re: Unconditional acceptance » Lindenblüte

Posted by muffled on November 8, 2006, at 1:41:29

In reply to Re: Unconditional acceptance » fires, posted by Lindenblüte on November 7, 2006, at 22:14:49

>Maybe we hold our T's to a tough standard. Of course there are conditions.1. We cannot expect our T's to accept us if they become afraid of us. 2. We cannot expect our T's to accept us if we never pay them. 3.We cannot expect our T's to accept us if we refuse to talk. 4. We cannot expect our T's to accept us if we wear earplugs and close our eyes during the session.

**I keep not 'getting' this unconditional acceptance thing. Boggles my mind. I didn't trust it at first, thot it was T technique crap, and of course there ARE bounds to how unconditional any human can be...
But i find it very odd applied to ME? I am sh*t. WHY would someone be so kind to me?? Just totally boggles me. So, that being said:

1.I truly beleive my T would not immediately dump me, if I scared her.
2.My T would work for nothing.
3.There are times when I have not done 'work', lotsa times...but my T let me have those times...
4.My T didn't dump me when I dissociated thru most of my sessions...
So I dunno....
Its a very odd business this whole thing.
Or mebbe i just being a world class idiot....
I just don't understand...
Why me?




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