Posted by ClearSkies on October 2, 2006, at 13:16:12
In reply to Hubby trubble**trigger?**, posted by muffled on October 2, 2006, at 12:00:51
> Hubby is quite prepared to be with me anytime.(WITH in the you-know-what way)
> But I don't like when he's not been around much.
> Then I just feel used.
> I never good at intimacy. Ugh.My personal experience with this has been that my husband has no way of knowing that I'm not on the same page with him at any given time. I tried sending him thought messages but he didn't pick up at all.
My T suggested I get kind of playful with him to help slow the process down. He's already there, but I'm just arriving, so to speak. We laugh together easily, so it's no stretch to turn his advances into a giggling cuddlefest before going any further. It helps a lot with our intimacy.
My husband travels a lot in his work and it feels like our heads are on totally different time lines...Muffled, you are not bad. I don't know if you said you were bad, but I thought I'd say it anyway.
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