Posted by muffled on September 6, 2006, at 23:48:07
In reply to Re: Tomorrow » llrrrpp, posted by ElaineM on September 6, 2006, at 23:23:54
Ya , do hope you go to cc El.
You need to widen your circle.
You need a more impartial T.
Please get external help beyond your current T El.
You can keep your current T.
You don't got to 'turn him in', or anything.
You just need someone more neutral is all.
SI is ok. Just be safe about it.
Try to get some calmness out of present injuries by looking at them. Sometimes new ones are not neccessary if you can look at fresh ones.
And of course there's the old, 'hold the icecube till it hurts thing'.
You can also babblemail, with caution, for support.
The thing about the board which is nice, is that there's lotsa people reading, and if a post or reply seems to be going off track somehow, usu. someone will speak up at some point.
Cuz your situation with your T has shown you how too insular a relationship can cause problems.
You don't need to feel you need to hide stuff from us.
I hope you don't feel we are judging you somehow, cuz we not.
You do not need to feel ashamed.
We all proly got our stuff that we feel embarrassed of. I sure as hell do.
But the thing is that here, with us on the board, we got no particular vested interest in what goes on for you, other than we care cuz we got our own sh*t and understand. And all this stuff helps us too. And now we gotten to know you some, we like you.
So of course there is absolutely no obligation to write anything but what you wish to share.
But I also think, being as isolated as you are, we can be a valuable sounding board for you.
Please take special care El.
This too shall pass.
Muffled
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