Posted by ElaineM on September 5, 2006, at 23:25:21
In reply to (((((Elaine))))), posted by happyflower on September 5, 2006, at 18:02:47
Happy, thanks so much for saying that. It's kinda horrifying to feel so seperate. It means alot for you to tell me that you know someone else going through this -- I kinda wish I knew her. And I hope me saying all that doesn't sound like I'm glad to hear another is suffering the same way -- that's the last thing I'd ever feel. I've just never felt so alienated. I want to cry for her. (((((((((Happy's ex-B friend))))))))) When she is sad tell her that I care about her even though I don't know who she is.
I can't say much about fantasizing about T's. I would never say not to -- it's not wrong. There's not much I could say on the subject without sounding like a big fat hypocrite though -- I don't have enough perspective right now. I guess I'd just say to be careful with your heart...and your mind [though that ends up sounding a little dumb too :-) ]
Thanks for speaking to me. Reading your post makes me feel a tiny bit stronger.
EL
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