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Re: You are not.

Posted by ElaineM on August 14, 2006, at 16:24:39

In reply to Re: You are not. » Tamar, posted by llrrrpp on August 14, 2006, at 13:27:14

Don't have anything new to add, but I agree that there's nothing wrong with having a physical attraction to someone older, or to a friend's father. Was is just a physical thing or is there more about him that makes you feel so drawn to him. Sometimes there's other stuff going on underneath. But sometimes it's just a good-looking man and a want for something that feels good immediately.

I agree with LL about finding the whole "crush" thing encouraging. For years after I wasn't able to feel anything but fear. Before that, was years of depression-numb -- nothingness. Feeling something positive like that again, let me know I was alive.

You're not a pervert, or abnormal. (((Tamar)))
EL


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