Posted by fairywings on August 7, 2006, at 15:49:18
In reply to Re: Confronting my mum » ElaineM, posted by littleone on August 6, 2006, at 21:15:29
Hi LO,
Your post really resonates with me. If you don't want to answer this, just ignore it, but did you and your husband ever come to terms over his going without you? I'm sorry it went that way.
It sounds as though your mother blames you to make herself feel better and in your suffering she has some satisfaction? If that is true, you don't deserve that, no one does.
I agree with Elaine...writing things out can reveal a lot of feelings, and in the process sometimes it helps figure out how to approach something. Thinking of all the senarios, and how to respond might help you get things off your chest. Will you hold your ground until your mother comes to you? I hope in time she comes around and will go to your T with you to try to work things out, that does sound safer.
fw
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