Posted by Estella on August 6, 2006, at 21:36:32
In reply to Re: therapy » Estella, posted by littleone on August 6, 2006, at 21:04:08
> Ouch. Not what you needed to hear.
yeah.
> I know I’ve heard you say before that you saw value in sorting things out yourself...
Ah. I think i meant... with a t. i just meant... some are too quick to interpret (jump to conclusions) rather than listening. i'd rather they try and facilitate me figuring stuff out rather than for them to try and figure stuff out for me.
> But I also know that for me, a big part of my healing is actually experiencing someone who really does care about and shows interest in me and helps build my worth up.
yeah. i hear you there. the trouble with that as... finding someone who really does care...
> I don’t really understand what the situation is...
it is mostly in seminars. seminars and sometimes reading groups. socially... they are fine :-)
so maybe i need to think of it as an... act. it is just that it it triggering for me. they aren't so sympathetic to that. i need to get used to it and i need to be able to handle it without feeling panic which means i can't think. i won't give it back... but i need to learn to take it because... that is the way it is sometimes.
>I didn’t mean that *you* were confrontational.
no. i was putting my concerns in your mouth there. sorry.
((((littleone)))))
thank you.i don't get the medicare thing... have basic health insurance because nzers aren't aussie residents for the purposes of health care etc. womens health centre said i was a resident... but they didn't have to do that... technically... i'm not.
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