Posted by Jost on June 28, 2006, at 22:15:37
In reply to wait.. will I get in trouble?, posted by wishingstar on June 28, 2006, at 21:17:38
I was glad to see your name here, wishingstar. I've been looking for it and hoping you were coping with the separation from your T.
It's great that you've reconnected with your old (or new/old, but not regular/hometownthatyou'renotseeing/new) T. Could you be feeling torn about who is your T, and what loyalty or commitment you owe each of them, or each of them owes you and would demand of you?
It shows a lot of courage to tell the T you're seeing now about your SI.
The seeing-both issue might be similar. It is hard to know how much to trust that you can handle a T's reaction-- esp., in this case, it's hard to know what it will be--different Ts have different beliefs about many of these things.
On one hand, I wouldn't you to jeopardize a relationship that's helping you, but it's also not good to feel as if you're hiding something. If your Ts could accept your needing someone in each town, if you're gone for so long, that would be the best--then you could feel more in the right place with each.
There might be an issue in there, that would be good to work on--even if you don't reveal with you're hiding-- maybe?
Jost
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