Posted by fairywings on April 20, 2006, at 10:33:26
In reply to I'm really sorry caraher, posted by milly on April 20, 2006, at 8:07:17
Thanks again for the suggestions and support.
HF you are my role model! ; ) It's so awesome you've moved forward and are enjoying your life even though your marriage is not a good or loving one.
CrazyT, my mom was the same way, and my biggest fear is that I'm turing into her! I don't want to be angry and bitter - I'm just so hurt right now. It aches inside and I feel a constant sinking feeling. I feel really paralyzed, but I am taking college classes, and I run - but I have so far to go bec. I have NO social life at all, and there's always too much to do w/4 kids.
Orchid, my husband refuses counseling, he sees it as a statement about his mental health I guess.
Milly, I'm glad your husband came around.
Caraher, I'm glad you and your wife worked it out. You sound like a good husband.
I guess I can't really blame my husband....if some man were being wonderful to me, and paying me all kinds of attn maybe I'd fall for him too. Hard to ignore that I guess! Esp. when life at home is hectic and chaotic.
fw
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