Posted by Deneb on February 28, 2006, at 16:29:18
In reply to Re: More about loving Dr. Bob » Deneb, posted by JenStar on February 28, 2006, at 14:25:59
> But I would say that no, it isn't "real" love that you're feeling - not exactly. I think you've created a "Dr. Bob persona" in your mind, an ideal Dr. Bob, that treats you the way you'd like to be treated.
I'm not really sure what "real" love is. Is it love when I say I really "love" the colour green? I feel like I have an intense love with green. Maybe I feel the same way with Dr. Bob. Maybe I just like the small bits of himself he shows to us and maybe that is enough. With all my thinking of him I've not actually imagined many details about him. Sometimes I just feel things and I don't know why I feel them.
I think I still know what you mean. I don't really know Dr. Bob at all. I can only guess from what he does here what he is like. I must fill in a lot of blanks.
> Although I'm sure the REAL Dr. Bob is polite, conscientious and caring, he definitely won't be the same as the imaginary one. It might be a little disappointing. But I bet you'll get over in a few seconds and enjoy meeting the real guy.
I hope it won't be too disappointing. LOL. I think you're right. I think I'll be less infatuated after I meet him. I hope he uses full sentences! I wonder if he will talk to me? I wonder what we will all talk about?
I'm amazed by what you wrote JenStar! You have really good insight and you described things just right!