Posted by Susan47 on February 25, 2006, at 15:42:48
In reply to Re: More about loving Dr. Bob » Poet, posted by Deneb on February 25, 2006, at 13:20:01
The love you're feeling for him can be the love you feel for yourself, or the love someone else feels for you (!) too .. provided they've also had that experience. Transferential love (?) is incredible, it's beautiful but if you focus on not having the person feel the same way about you, I think maybe it could become harmful, so don't ever get that way, I think you're really smart Deneb, and it's wonderful to see your grip on this, and your ability to enjoy what's happening to you and not be afraid of it or embarrassed about it, you've got courage, you always tell what you're thinking if you're worried about it. And you have the sense to BE worried about things that matter ... go, girl.