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Re: I think you should give it more time. » orchid

Posted by happyflower on December 13, 2005, at 15:47:30

In reply to I think you should give it more time. » happyflower, posted by orchid on December 12, 2005, at 20:56:09

Oh by the way, my marriage was also like yours now.

My DH never phsically assulted me. My marriage has never been like yours.
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> I think you are in the same state too. I think you really are not capable of all the emotional investment needed for a marriage to work at this state - with your mind full of your T. It really isn't possible to try to work out a marriage fully when your heart is full with another guy. Subconsciously you might be sabotaging your own efforts.

You are way off base here. This is extreamly critical and demeaning to say this about me. My mental state has never been like yours. My mind is not full of my T. My heart is not with another guy. I have never been so insulted in my life and for someone who says they are nice. Well if you are being so nice, I hate to see what you say when you aren't nice. I might get a PBC here, but you are very rude and unsupportive and I don't need that from anyone.


> Think about it more, and I think you need to wait atleast until a year after your therapy terminates and you stop seeing your T, to come to a realistic conclusion about your marriage.

YOU ARE TELLING ME TO BE REALISTIC? JUDGE YOUR YOUR OWN ACTIONS IN YOUR OWN MARRIAGE BEFORE YOU JUDGE ME ABOUT MY MARRIAGE. I wouldn't be so rude to tell you what I think you realistically should do in your marriage.


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