Posted by 10derHeart on December 8, 2005, at 21:53:03
In reply to Re: Therapy anniversary ramblings, posted by Dinah on December 8, 2005, at 20:45:11
lol. I think it came out fine.
I do remember your anxious-card-time! But that was 10 years, right? Huge!
Oddly, it seems like I still want to do it, but it's actually *not* such a big deal. Hard to know if I should view that as good or bad. But I'll bet waiting to see what he says about it (4 days) will be a *plenty big deal*!
I like your husband's saying very much :-) Except, I suppose, if he uses it as part of justification to not commemorate anniversaries (err...wedding?) that are important to you! Then, I wouldn't like his saying so much any more at all. ;-) But that doesn't sound like him.
This is good...this just reminded me of another thing I said to my T. while he was trying (and failing) to look all cool and collected about his audacity in checking my memory for important dates. I told him he's lucky this isn't a different sort of male/female relationship, 'cause the forgetting-the-exact-date part would put him in real hot water with me!
That got me a smile and a laugh.
{psst...Dinah....don't tell anyone, but I'm pretty sure you're not the only one who's doing some nonsexual flirting in therapy...and, I know it's waaaaay lovely for me to make him laugh....}
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