Posted by Dinah on December 6, 2005, at 12:40:31
In reply to Re: Here I go » Dinah, posted by Tamar on December 6, 2005, at 10:35:20
Although I waited for an appropriate opening.
It was about T3 and the fact that I found her too challenging.
She admitted that her style was more change oriented than I might be used to, but said she was willing to try to pace herself to my ability to tolerate it. But warned that she wasn't going to change it so much that I wouldn't still get angry and anxious from time to time.
And we changed the goal from growing up my "little girl" as she calls it. I let her know that I'd worked hard and long to accept and respect that part of me, and that that approach was better overall for my life.
So... We'll try another four sessions under the new understanding and then evaluate the results. We also clarified that we'd keep it strictly sex therapy, since I'm seeing T1 regularly for the moment.
She said she respected that I came in and talked about it. That usually if people had a problem with her style, they just quit coming. I told her that was my usual style as well. :)
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