Posted by rainbowbrite on December 3, 2005, at 11:45:08
In reply to Re: That is really great !!! » orchid, posted by happyflower on December 3, 2005, at 8:24:40
>>Yes, I agree, but my T and I do agree, it has been months since any sex or any talking either. He refused to do couple therapy. Plus he won't tell me where he stands with that other women he works with. He avoids me and every conversation with me. It has been like this since last March. How long would you put up with this?
sorry, im just catching the tail end of this an di dont know the history between you and your husband. But if you think he is having an affair get to a lawyer asap! also I read in a previous thread about staying together for the kids....I wouldnt recomend that. If your kids ever found out you did that they may end up carrying an incredible guilt with them, also kids are very perceptive and generally will know if their parents are not happy. IMO its better to teach self respect then endurecne of a miserable situation. If you are unhappy, your husband refuses to get help with you, talk to you about your feelings and concerns, ignore your needs, well IMO do what you need to make you and your kids happy.
Im so sorry you are in this situation
I hope something work outs.
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