Posted by orchid on November 28, 2005, at 1:52:39
In reply to Re: Throwing Panties » LipGloss, posted by happyflower on November 27, 2005, at 22:37:20
Hi HF,
I wonder about something. Do you really think objectively that you and your T are soul mates? And if you married each other, your life will be full of happiness and joy? Or atleast that it will be very emotionally fulfilling?
These days, I have become very much convinced there is no such thing as soul mates. I keep thinking that I could have lived as happily with many men as I could have possibly lived with any one man. It is mostly about taking the efforts to make the marriage work. There really isn't that much of difference amongst different persons.
Why I am saying this, is, perhaps for the time being, maybe you can focus on your marriage more and leave aside things with your T and leave it for time to answer. For all you know, at the end of 2 years, you might be once again in love with your husband, and you may not think as highly of your T as you think now. Plus I agree with LipGloss in the fact that breaking families especially when kids are involved is really heartbreaking for everyone involved. You might end up regretting it in the long run.
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