Posted by Susan47 on November 4, 2005, at 20:34:54
In reply to Orchid: Guidelines, posted by allisonross on October 27, 2005, at 8:00:06
I'm wondering, you know, if you're not just enjoying all this apparently mutual flirtation so much because you trust him with it. Maybe it's not a problem for you, and I believe it probably isn't. You seem happy and all. But I am wondering whether it's a problem for him.
Here.
He's supposed to be the gatekeeper. He doesn't let anyone in who isn't authorized with the proper key.
You're the keymaster, you know you are, on some level you believe you are or you want to believe it anyway.
But if he's not keeping the gate guarded, and you're the reason why, then no one will ever need a key; this makes you purposeless, and him useless.
That annihilates both of you.
Therefore, you need to make sure you play both keymaster AND gatekeeper, or both of you will.. die. Yes.
I'm definitely maniacally sick. Ill.
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