Posted by Tamar on September 14, 2005, at 17:51:44
In reply to Found out more - bad news (Trigger), posted by Dinah on September 13, 2005, at 18:26:41
Oh Dinah, I’m sorry that your therapist has plans that will make your life difficult. A three hour drive each way is quite a strain. At least it’s physically possible, which is not great, but it’s a start.
I’m glad your brain is responding in a practical way, and I’m not surprised that your gut is less easily persuaded. Uncertainty is horrible. And yes, this comes at a terrible time for you after all the bereavements of the last few months.
Please stay very safe. It will take a while for everything to shake down and although the uncertainty of the next few months will be agony, there is still some hope for the future. You haven’t lost him yet. He still wants to work with you. He’s willing to organise part of his life around you (even if you don’t think his plans are very realistic). His willingness to continue to care for you might give you some hope.
Do look after yourself. Huge vibes of support winging their way to you from over here…
Tamar
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