Posted by Tamar on August 27, 2005, at 5:05:37
In reply to Re: Why am I so incompetent? » Tamar, posted by fairywings on August 26, 2005, at 8:34:30
> Aw, that's so sad. I'm amazed that you were able to hold out for so long, believing that the tape contained something so precious, w/o listening to it, and I'm sorry his voice wasn't on it. I know that must have been so hard.
Yeah. I can’t believe I thought it was there when all along it wasn’t. But maybe thinking it was there was enough. If I’d discovered my mistake four months ago it would probably have been much worse!
> I've found the only way I get over one person is with another, anyway to put another person in his spot? Teacher, mentor, boss, neighbor, friend? Someone to help and guide you in some way?
Yeah! It reminds me of that quote usually attributed to Mae West: “The best way to get over a man is to get under a man.” It’s always worked for me! Mind you, I’m not sure I should develop the sort of feelings for my boss that I had for my therapist… I’d never get any work done! But yeah, maybe I can find someone to project or transfer some of it onto!
Thanks for the hugs. I like hugs!
Tamar
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