Posted by pinkeye on July 31, 2005, at 17:25:48
In reply to Re: Not able to tell my T I liker her so much !! » pinkeye, posted by Tamar on July 31, 2005, at 15:20:59
Thank you Tamar. I was wondering about you - you were missing in action for some time. !! I hope you had a good holiday.
I am going to try to tell her. Maybe mildly. She really deserves that.
And maybe I will write her a card.
It felt good that she was little emotional. I had thought of her almost like steel like with no emotions. Maybe that would really help.
Thanks.
> I can really understand it, Pinkeye. You went through so much with your ex-T. And I'm sure she understands that.
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> Do you feel a little bit warm and happy inside knowing that she feels a little emotional about your termination? I know that would help me get the words out.
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> And also, if you don't tell her, will you kick yourself over the next few weeks for your silence?
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> Are you a bit afraid of her response? It's true that therapists are not always forthcoming about their own feelings. I told my therapist in our final session that I would miss him. He suggested that clients sometimes want to know how their therapists feel about the termination and I said I did want to know. So he told me he'd enjoyed our work together and that he would miss it. It was good to hear. I can imagine your therapist telling you something similar.
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> I think the suggestion of writing a letter, or perhaps a thank you card, is a good one. It doesn't have to be elaborate. But I imagine you'll feel better if you tell her than if you keep silent about it.
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> (((((pinkeye)))))
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> When is your last session?
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> Tamar
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