Posted by Tamar on July 31, 2005, at 21:29:28
In reply to Re: Not able to tell my T I liker her so much !! » Tamar, posted by pinkeye on July 31, 2005, at 17:25:48
> Thank you Tamar. I was wondering about you - you were missing in action for some time. !! I hope you had a good holiday.
Yes thanks, I had a great holiday. I was back for a couple of days and then suddenly had to go away again for a family wedding, which was great, but now I'm exhausted!
> I am going to try to tell her. Maybe mildly. She really deserves that.
And so do you! I think it will be a good thing for you if you are able to trust her enough to tell her you will miss her. There are so many symbolic resonances about being able to trust someone you care about. You've made so much progress and gained so much insight in recent months that you really have a lot to build on.
> And maybe I will write her a card.
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> It felt good that she was little emotional. I had thought of her almost like steel like with no emotions.From what you said, she didn't really encourage a very deep attachment. But I tend to think if therapy is going to work there has to be some attachment, even if you don't feel like soul mates. I’m glad that she showed her emotions.I hope it gives you some confidence that it’s OK to show yours.
About what you said in your other post, when you said you think she doesn't like you... Didn't you say once that she told you she likes you? I'm sure she was telling the truth and that she really does like you. You're a very likeable person!
Tamar
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