Posted by Shortelise on July 29, 2005, at 11:26:31
In reply to Talking about Sex (potential trigger), posted by Daisym on July 28, 2005, at 19:13:16
Daisy, you are so... amazing. You went into the abyss and came out again.
I would think your T feels glad. You talked with him about the bones of your feelings. Part of what he does is to be the someone you can talk about having sex with, loving, hating, whatever. The more we do that with them, the closer we come to understanding and sorting things out. It's his JOB, Daisy, so you don't have to go tot he place of "I said the wrong thing and freaked him out".
In a way, that makes me think of what you said about your dream about your father. You "told" your therapist about sex with your husband, and now you might go into fearing you've killed something between you and your T. Connection?
Daisy, you don't have to freak out, do you? Your T is wonderful, really wonderful. And so are you.
ShortE
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