Posted by happyflower on July 25, 2005, at 18:32:51
In reply to Re: What goes through a child abuser mind *trigger » happyflower, posted by AuntieMel on July 25, 2005, at 12:27:37
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> My father was much like your mother. Not quite as bad, but that's largely because he spent a lot of time ignoring us.Wow, it seems like we have a lot in common. (unfortunatly)
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> >>>>My T says she is paying, by not having me or my brother in her life or her grandkids. But sometimes it just doesn't seem like it is payment enough.
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> Your therapist is right, but it's more than that. You have wonderful kids and are working to get past this and have a great life. Success is the best revenge.
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> And if she meets the same fate as my father, she will die a lonely old woman.
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Thanks Auntie! I think she will meet the same fate, but I really don't care! My T asked me one time what I would do if my mom was on her death bed and called to talk to me. I told him I would send her congratuations ballons. I know that sounds mean, but I will be happy when she is gone. I don't have to worry about my family or my kids.
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