Posted by Poet on July 5, 2005, at 22:36:56
In reply to ....not sure what to call this ...(*t* warning), posted by shrinking violet on July 5, 2005, at 18:54:45
Hi SV,
It's awful when questions keep going round and round in your head until you are dizzy from all the spinning. I wish I could stop your brain from doing this to you, but I don't know how to stop my brain from my obsessive thinking.
A few months after a friend of mine was terminated by her T, she called to ask if T could recommend a new T. Former T let her come in to talk about it (and did give her a bunch of names, too.)
Maybe you could call your former T and ask about getting referrals? It might be a way to talk to her. I know that your T is part of the University, but she probably knows Ts outside the system that she could recommend for you. She might at least let you see her to talk about it and then you can try to get some of these questions out, too.
I am so sorry that you couldn't continue seeing your T. I agree with Dinah that the university should have something in place for graduates.
Take care of yourself. (((((((((((hugs))))))) and eyedrops.
Poet
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