Posted by Jazzed on June 25, 2005, at 6:51:12
In reply to Re: My decision! :) » Jazzed, posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 11:24:59
>He is attractive to me in a lot of ways but I have given up the thought of it being any more than it is. But it is fun to fantasize about it. :)
Well, if it give you fantasies, that's good imo., and if he's nice to look at, well that's a bonus! ; )
> This is just my way of having fun with it. I do wear a bra in public, but when I am home, it is off baby! ( Did you see the Bra subject on social)Oh yeah, I saw it, and commented that mine are too big to do that. Wish I could. B4 I had kids they were perfect! I'm talking to a surgeon about reduction later this year.
>lol He is a kid of the 70's , so I am sure he would like the braless look maybe privately around him.
So, give it a try, and see his reaction, might be fun to throw him off like that, but I think I'd stay away from any discussion of sex that session. Don't want to do any major damage! LOL
>I think he has a naughty side to him, I can just tell.
That's fun. So, at least you know he's normal in that regard! ; )
> How did you find this out? Did they wait 2 years after therapy? How much of it do you know?
Oh, it was no secret. He was in the same social group as my brother's in-laws, but not directly social with them. They didn't like him so much, mainly bec. of what he did to me. Anyway, the woman he married, lived in OUR neighborhood, we all saw it coming. And NO, they did not wait the two years. He asked her while she was still in therapy with him! He was still married to his wife, but divorced her, and she was in the process of divorce at the time. Then they got married within the year. I genuinely felt sorry for her because of how he messed me up, and because of the things he told me about his first wife. She had a LOT of problems. Geeze, you just HAVE to wonder if he wasn't the root cause.
> My next session is Wed. 11am., I am looking forward to it, it has been a long 2 weeks! :)
> >I can understand. The wait seems endless. I'm going to ask for more frequent sessions, at least for the summer, so we can get into it and get going with it. I'm so impatient!
Jazzy
poster:Jazzed
thread:517585
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20050622/msgs/518537.html