Posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 7:50:18
In reply to Re: Why would a T ask these questions?, posted by Jazzed on June 24, 2005, at 6:55:23
Okay, Jazzy! I am sorry if this seems so blunt, I know I am, and am working at it, but anyways I am going to put it to your straight. lol okay?
Your T is totally rude and I question his ability.
First of to bring up these topics, without you bringing them up first, just floors me! I would be totally offended! I think it doesn't have anything to do with CBT ! It seems like this guy likes to confront you about every sensitive issue, child raising, menaopause, and now weight isssues all in 2 visits. Either he is totally inexpericed as a T and as a man, or he is an idiot! I am sorry, but I think your 1st impression of this jerk was right on. My T is C therapist, and doesn't bring up things unless I do.
To me it is like he is saying you are a bad parent, a b*tch from premenopause, and you are too fat! Is this helpful for anyone? It seems like to me he has women issues that need to be addressed. I would run far away from this T, he is no good. I am sorry, but you can do much better. There is a reason he is the only one available, Jazzy please don't be mad, but get away from this jerk! :)