Posted by pinkeye on June 23, 2005, at 19:52:01
In reply to Re: The difference is only what works and what doesn't, posted by alexandra_k on June 23, 2005, at 19:11:12
For everything in life that is all there is to it. If it works or not ultimately.
If a guy speculates in stocks and makes millions - he was there in the right place at the right time.. If a guy does the same thing and loses millions, he was there in the wrong place at the wrong time.
All these concepts of transference, regression, therapy are all meant to try to fix when something goes wrong.. The same thing, if a patient marries a therapist and lives very happily, then it will be claimed as "just happened to find the love in the wrong place"
If I behave like a child and at the same time good in career, then it is treated as "wonderful - she still retains her innocence and childishness"..In fact people used to envy me for that before - how I used to retain my childishness and innocence in spite of operating in the real world.. But now if it doesn't help me, then people tell me I am regressed.
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