Posted by pinkeye on March 2, 2005, at 13:22:45
In reply to Re: Oh Dear.... Pinkeye, you too » pinkeye, posted by Susan47 on March 2, 2005, at 12:47:13
Thanks Susan. I shall try to be much more careful with what I am saying. I didn't get offended, only didn't want to cause more trouble to anybody in the name of helping.
Sometimes I get caught up in being logically correct that I fail to see if it is emotionally correct - with everyone even in real life. I have a tendency to do that - it used to be a lot before, now I am understanding that in myself and trying to rectify that. I was so involved in rephrasing that book, that is where all that you should do this, do that must have come from.
Maybe that is where some of the CBT approaches go wrong as well.. They are probably thinking that logical correctness automatically ensures emotional follow up. Which we all know is hardly the case isn't it.
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