Posted by Susan47 on February 10, 2005, at 10:47:01
In reply to Re: Do your Ts like you?, posted by mair on February 10, 2005, at 9:45:02
I'm trying really hard to think of myself in the terms, "What's not to like?" I know it's unrealistic that people will like everything about me, but I feel I need to accept everything about me so that I'm not worried whether my therapist likes me. I used to worry about that with my last therapist, then near the end when I was getting really antagonistic towards him because he was such a blank slate, I told myself he didn't need to like me ... but I was lying to myself. I really wanted him to like me. Thinking that he didn't really hurt me quite a lot. This is such a good thread.