Posted by bent on February 7, 2005, at 18:16:19
In reply to Re: i suck at therapy, posted by mair on February 7, 2005, at 16:36:39
Wow, interesting story. I imagine that could get in the way of therapy. Its weird how we battle with what to tell our T's, especially when it has to do with what we know about them. I have known for three years more about my T than she could imagine (probably) but I can’t tell her. I know where she lives; I know who her husband is. I am so afraid of it freaking her out (there I go looking out for my T's feelings again!). I guess really it doesn’t matter but if we could just come out and say these things they wouldn’t seem so powerful. But then again, no one can guarantee the T won’t react poorly. That is what I am afraid of. I have never told my T that I think I suck at therapy but I think it’s about time! Thanks for sharing.