Posted by Dinah on February 7, 2005, at 19:54:30
In reply to Re: i suck at therapy » lonelygal2, posted by bent on February 7, 2005, at 18:18:38
Oh, that brings back fond memories. It used to be that I would call my therapist and if he answered ask him to please hang up so I could call back and speak to his voicemail. There were just things I could not say, even by phone, with him there to answer.
It happens a lot less now, but I still call sometimes and hope he doesn't answer.
If you think it will help to call and leave a message to ask her to push you a bit next time about this issue, I think that's a grand idea. And if you want to write it down to help sort out your feelings and have a cheat sheet with you, that sounds terrific too.
When things are rough in therapy, we can use all the handy dandy aids we can muster.