Posted by fallsfall on December 17, 2004, at 17:01:13
In reply to Re: But then its back to nothing. » Dinah, posted by alexandra_k on December 17, 2004, at 16:44:02
If he is "acting just like your father" there may be some transference going on. You might ask if he thinks that there is. My experience says that before the transference has been named it seems that all of my reactions are perfectly normal reactions to the reality of the situation. But after we talk about it a bit, I see that the reality of the situation isn't exactly what I thought it was - that I have made assumptions based on my history that aren't true in the present.
Good luck.
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