Posted by shrinking violet on September 21, 2004, at 18:26:14
In reply to The curse of voicemail, posted by Klokka on September 21, 2004, at 16:27:18
>> Why can't I just get over this? I'm so aware of both being attached and wanting to pull away from that attachment, too, and I can't stand it. I would never have gotten involved in this if I knew how much pain it would cause. I don't want to try anymore, but I have to and I can't rest. And I don't even want to think of what the winter will bring if things are this bad already... let alone how much whining I'll end up doing.
Aw, sweetie...that's *exactly* what I'm dealing with right now. It isn't at all fun.....I hope, though, it'll be worth it in the end. For both of us.
As for the message you sent, please try not to bereate yourself over it. I'm horrid with leaving messages...usually if I know I'm going to reach a machine, I'll sometimes write out what I want to say ahead of time and read it off (I know, I'm weird), or as you said, I'll at least mentally prepare (sometimes it doesn't go as well in reality, though). Could you call again and leave another message, saying that you were on a busy road and was a bit preoccupied and wanted to clarify, and then this time maybe write out what you want to say and just read it off?
Either way, I'm sure your T will understand what you meant, or he'll ask for clarification if he doesn't. It'll be okay. :)
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