Posted by Susan47 on July 23, 2004, at 15:53:53
In reply to Re: T questions-Joslynn, posted by starlight on July 22, 2004, at 18:23:25
> Susan47,
> Trust your instincts, trust your instincts! I would find someone who you connect better with. It seems like you have good insights to what his personality is like and don't like his disconnected approach. Does it make you feel like he's judging you?
> starlightThe problem is I feel like we connected too well. I saw stuff on his face at the beginning which was (in my mind) suggestive of being attracted to me, and also he emoted so much (read: expressions on his face), and I'm the kind of person who absolutely reads way too much into everything anyway.
The upshot of it all is that from the beginning I was attracted to him anyway; I didn't need any encouragement, and when I felt he was giving it to me, I *so* pushed him away. If he's disconnected, it's because I asked him to be that way. Is that not weird?
This is probably an issue I need to deal with.
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