Posted by tabitha on May 29, 2004, at 13:04:10
In reply to Re: Maybe I can post this part, posted by Dinah on May 29, 2004, at 9:54:52
So what do you think is up with him fixating on your gray hair? Does he have some personal taste about that or something? I get comments on my gray hairs sometimes. I'd like to know why on earth anyone thinks that's socially acceptable. Do I say 'hey, you're getting a little potbelly these days, didja notice?'. Is there some kind of social rule that women are required to dye their hair now? Well pshaw! I'm with you, I think a little gray softens the look. The harsh solid-color hair is jarring and makes the wrinkles show more.
But I can see why it would be so hurtful, coming from your therapist, when your own impulse to focus on weight loss is a good one. I encourage you to talk this out with him, but I'm sure you will anyway.
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