Posted by crushedout on January 30, 2004, at 22:31:17
In reply to Re: New thoughts on T disclosures re: countertrans, posted by alexandra_k on January 30, 2004, at 22:23:09
you did kind of offend me, but...just fyi, that's the very reason why i've never come right out and asked her directly whether she's attracted to me: i would hate to hear that she wasn't.but also fyi, since you seem to be unfamiliar with my history, when i told her i had romantic feelings for her, she responded by telling me she found me very beautiful. also when i made her a mix cd, she responded by making me one (with romantic songs on it). i was alarmed by both of these actions because i thought they were potentially inappropriate, and now i'm rethinking that.
> Hate to be a party killer but maybe your T doesn't feel this way about you - which may be why she hasn't said anything.
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> How would that make you feel?
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> I am not meaning to offend or anything...
poster:crushedout
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