Posted by Miss Honeychurch on January 28, 2004, at 11:11:48
In reply to Re: Interesting book and a question about boundaries » Miss Honeychurch, posted by crushedout on January 28, 2004, at 11:04:14
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> yeah, that's one of my worries, too. but it seems irrational. i mean, *why* would she feel awkward or guilty? because it would remind her that she f'ed up? she remembers that anyway.
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> and, in my case, i have to disagree that self-restraint is good. i restrain myself way too much. i'm trying to learn to open up.
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>I guess I am putting myself in her shoes and I know she knows she f'ed up, but maybe having something tangible to remind her of the f up would be awkward. Just thinking...
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