Posted by Miss Honeychurch on January 28, 2004, at 11:07:47
In reply to Interesting book and a question about boundaries, posted by crushedout on January 28, 2004, at 8:03:54
Crushed,
I seem to remember that you are married? Did I make this up? If so, I'm curious to know how you deal with your transference with your wife. I went through a similar transference episode with my therapist and am afarid I didn't handle it too well with my husband. While I never came out and said that I was in love with my Therapist, I knew that he knew. I thought about my T all the time and I guess some of this obsessing over my T hurt my spouse in some way.
Thankfully I seem to be over the transference. I know this is none of my business, but I am just curious as to how you and others deal with your transference if you have a spouse or SO you have to contend with. I found it very hard.
I was in the end able to distinguish between the love I had (and have ) for my T and the love I have for my spouse. It was a wierd process all around.
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