Posted by crushedout on January 17, 2004, at 15:57:41
In reply to Re: Moving Past Transference » crushedout, posted by Rigby on January 17, 2004, at 0:39:44
yeah, well, keep noodling! it's good noodling. maybe we'll all figure it out together. eventually.i think stuff *has* calmed down a bit. thanks. i'm sure it'll spark back up again. i think i'm still in love. but she went away this week and i had a nice break from her. it's sort of a relief. still, i can't wait to see her again.
> Hi Crushed. I hope you're doing okay there. I'm not clear on how to move past it either, actually. Just noodling on it and trying different stuff for now. I wonder if just tackling that sentence about having someone meet your needs so well--if that's some sort of clue--maybe an idealism that ends up back firing? Anyway, I hope things have calmed down a bit on your end.
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> > Sounds pretty brilliant. Although I'm still not entirely clear on how you move past it. Especially when I've never met anyone else in the whole world who meets my needs so well. I gotta think on it some more.
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