Posted by Karen_kay on December 4, 2003, at 16:01:07
In reply to I wish I was an artist, posted by Dinah on December 4, 2003, at 15:45:21
Dinah,
First of all I think you are so courageous to take this step. To move past your safety zone and into a more challenging role with your therapist. I'm sure at first it will be hard. But, don't you think that as he begins to challenge you more, you will indeed find him to be even more of a safety net? As he helps you to find the answers you have been looking for then the confines of therapy will even seem that much safer to you. Does that make sense? I'm not sure I can express what I mean. I think you've already done the hardest part, which is allowing yourself to open up and accepting the fact that you can be challenged. You've essentially "given up" your safety net at this point and your therapist is right there to cushion your fall, if that should happen. I don't think it will, you seem like such a strong woman. But I think that by allowing him to challenge you, you will make so much more progress. Imagine how much more amazing you will be!
And remember, he'll always be there if you need him to be! If it gets rough, don't hesitate to call him. He's there both to challenge and support you. He's not abandoning the supportive role in favor of a challenging role. He's merely taking on a dual role! Think of it that way! He can do both, be supportive and challenging at the same time. I think that he'll be able to tell which is appropriate at what time.
Take care girlie, you're doing beautifuly!
Karen
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