Posted by zenn4 on November 25, 2003, at 10:45:47
In reply to I'm creepy.. Help!!, posted by Karen_kay on November 24, 2003, at 15:30:25
Having curiousity is natural. Good or bad, I know alot of information about my pdoc and former therapist. I think that's because I'm having a real relationship not just a relationship in my head, as I usually do. It's no longer abstract. I do not think you have crossed any lines, but perhaps if it becomes compulsive/obsessive than that may present a problem for you. And you may need to look at that, but I wouldn't feel bad about wanting to know. There is a certain amount of intimacy in a therapuetic relationship - but in the right ways. I don't know if telling him or not would be helpful. Not telling him may compound your need for authenticity and reality. I always think, no matter what, honesty is the best policy. Without it, they can't really help you.
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