Posted by Sigismund on November 23, 2008, at 19:02:33
In reply to Re: Bad day, posted by Nadezda on November 17, 2008, at 18:55:00
Well, your trouble with sleeping is likely to be related to Emsam, which you need.
And so you are late, although after this performance I can't imagine you will be late too often.
>It doesn't make sense to me, really.
Me neither.
>I know I can be difficult, and sometimes I am argumentative-- but most of this doesn't feel as if it's really about me. I can't make sense of what he says--about me-- or what he wants me to accept-- that I'm mean-spirited, and hateful and that these descriptions aren't judgments, but just "statements of fact."That's a bit much
>Yet I don't feel as if I"m a mean-spirited person. I feel often afraid of people, and fearful that they won't like me, or will judge or otherwise not think well of me. He says this is another sign of my mean-spiritedness, and that my fear is a "lie" or just a pretext to justify my not treating people well-- and not letting them help me.
This is not my experience of you. You are just not like that, IMO.All I can judge you by is your behaviour here. Sometimes you are (a little) argumentative (maybe)?
I have never seen you be mean-spirited (a little terse once or twice? and who isn't?)
poster:Sigismund
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