Posted by harry b. on March 16, 2000, at 17:17:48
In reply to Re: On the other hand...., posted by michael on March 16, 2000, at 2:20:29
Michael,
I'm aware of the risks. As for leaning on him, yes
I have been. BUT he has called me, needing to talk,
more often than I have called him. I asked him to
go to the movie with me tomorrow evening. He asked
me if we could meet earlier and go to dinner before
the movie.The session I have scheduled with my therapist
tomorrow afternoon is to address whether or not
I should tell him yet, or to try to find ways of
getting his opinions on homosexuality without outing
myself. It all sounds devious, I know, but one
thing my therapist pointed out is that I AM depressed,
I AM on medications, and I AM NOT totally rational.
(whatever that is)It might be that the best thing is to let the friendship
continue for a while longer before making any rash
decisions that could endanger it.I appreciate your concerns.
poster:harry b.
thread:26935
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