Posted by kathleen on February 14, 2000, at 11:51:30
In reply to Well said, Noa. Find someone else, Kathleen (EOM), posted by Bruce on February 11, 2000, at 10:05:16
to all the people who took the time to answer my questions - i appreciate your comments from the bottom of my heart... so let me respond -
i am not a masochist and i know that life with this guy is not always going to be easy. but, despite the fact that he does not want to take the meds, i will stay with him because i do love him.
let me explain -the moment i met this man (and i mean the actual nano-second) the sky lit up, the earth spun and i knew at the precise moment that if there was anything that could really be called destiny, this was it. that was almost 2 years ago. at times, life is like a rollercoaster. but what i have done is this - when he feels sad and down i let him feel that way. it is not my place to try to convince him that he's not sad. if he is feeling this, then he needs to work through it - and to know that if he wants me, i'm there for him. he tried the meds. it was awful. and truthfully, i can't blame him for not wanting to take them... and as selfish and self-center
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